Knotts' daughter honors father in pages and on stages

For late comedy legend and West Virginia native son Don Knotts, growing up in Morgantown during the Depression Era afforded seemingly few Mayberry-esque memories.

Born on July 21, 1924, Knotts lived in a boarding home run by his mother, following the death of his abusive, alcoholic father, who sometimes threatened his youngest son, Jesse Donald, with a knife.

“I felt like a loser,” Knotts once said about his upbringing in an interview. “I was unhappy as a child most of the time. We were terribly poor and I hated my size. Mainly, I thought of Barney [Fife] as a kid. You can always look into the faces of kids and see what they’re thinking, if they’re happy or sad. That’s what I tried to do with Barney.”

Knotts attended Morgantown High School, then enlisted in the Army to serve in World War II. He earned a bachelor’s degree in Education from West Virginia University in 1948.

Knotts had found he could make people laugh, often as a ventriloquist, during his military service. After graduating from WVU, he married and moved to New York. His first showbiz TV break came in 1953 with a two-year role as Wilbur Peterson on the “Search for Tomorrow” soap opera. Later that decade, Knotts was a recurring (and often high-strung) character on “The Steve Allen Plymouth Show.” He made his debut as Deputy Barney Fife on CBS’ “The Andy Griffith Show” in 1960. (He and Griffith had co-starred in the 1958 film “No Time for Sergeants;” Knotts reprised his Broadway role from a year earlier.)

Morgantown has remembered him fondly over the years. Don Knotts Boulevard opened in 1998. A statue of Knotts was unveiled on High Street in Morgantown in 2016.

A daughter’s tribute

His daughter, Karen Knotts, also honors his memory — and her memories of him — in both a 2021 memoir, “Tied Up in Knotts: My Dad and Me” (with a foreword by actress Betty Lynn, Barney’s beloved Thelma Lou on “The Andy Griffith Show”) and in a traveling comedy show, “Tied Up in Knotts!.”

She started writing the book prior to the pandemic, she said. “I got the deal, and the publisher wanted the book out in time for Christmas sales; that gave me just one year. I went to Morgantown and interviewed people whose parents had grown up with him. I learned a lot about his childhood. One story was, he entered a drama contest and was selected to be in the finals. He and his scene partner traveled to a high school in Ohio and won the competition. He was singled out as being an extraordinary young actor who had the sophistication to perform Noel Coward.”

While no stage appearances are on the calendar for upcoming West Virginia visits currently, Karen will be performing one state to the east next week. “Tied Up in Knotts!” will start at 8 p.m. Thursday, Nov. 2, at the Cumberland Theatre, 101 Johnson St. in Cumberland, Maryland. She will sign and sell copies of her book afterward.

Karen launched her stage show in 2006, a few months after Don died at age 81. “It was very different from what it is now — it even had puppets! ‘Tied Up In Knotts!’ started to become the show it is today around 2011. I began touring with it and it really took off in 2015. I’ve been improving it over the years, based on audience reaction. I can honestly say, it’s the best it has ever been. I’m also performing more than ever,” she said.

“Tied Up in Knotts!” includes 140 slides and video clips that serve as a backdrop to her anecdotes.

“Audiences love the stories about Dad and Tim Conway’s movies and seeing the video,” she said. “Tim would ad lib in every scene, which drove Don nuts. They were each other’s biggest fans.”

Knotts’ stage act invokes and involves another relative dear to her dad. “I also portray Dad’s favorite aunt, Emma Belle, who was witness to the early days when he was performing ventriloquism. She tells how he ended up in the Army show, ‘Stars and Gripes,’ and how he lost his dummy, Danny, overseas. Danny never got over it!”

Father figure in life vs. Barney Fife

Karen was born in early April 1954, one of two children from her father’s first of three marriages (Don raised her as a single parent after his divorce). Her childhood home life didn’t always mirror idyllic Mayberry life, either, but it had its share of moments that let her bask and delight in her father’s ineffable comedic side.

“Dad was not like Barney Fife at home. He was wonderfully funny, but in his own way,” she said. “When we’d go out to dinner, there was some schtick he would do. He would thumb through the container of sugar packets and say, ‘I’m sorry, your photos aren’t ready yet.’ He’d stand up and start tapping his spoon on the glass as if trying to get the restaurant’s attention — ‘I’d like to make an announcement.’ Nobody noticed and we were dying laughing!”

Don would perform magic tricks for Karen and her brother, Thomas, occasionally, she added, and “he also wanted us to be informed. After dinner, he’d read to us from the World Book Encyclopedia.

“When I first told him I wanted to pursue acting, Dad wasn’t happy because he knew how hard it is to make it in showbiz. A famous parent can only help so much. He did accept my ambition, though. In 1971, he had a variety show and he put me on it. I was a teenager then. Later, he helped me get an agent and I got parts on sitcoms.

“When I decided to do standup, he said, ‘That’s very hard for a woman to get into.’ At that time, it was even harder than now. Some of the best times were when he would put me in plays he was doing. I got to go on the road with him, and it was a thrill to be on stage with the master,” Karen said.

Even her final moments with her father were leavened with laughter at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in Los Angeles. “Well, Dad was dying and he was being funny. I started to laugh and I ran out of the room, because I didn’t want him to think I was laughing at him in that situation.

“I told the ‘Mork and Mindy’ director, Howard Storm, about it. He said, ‘You should have stayed there and kept laughing. It’s what comedians live for.’”

Karen believes her father’s indelible “The Andy Griffith Show” role remains as hilarious and heartfelt — and relevant — three decades into the 21st century. “I am continually amazed at how the show has lived on since the 1960s. In a way, it’s even more important now. Its popularity has grown since the world has become so complicated. We seem to be losing the basic human value we started with: ‘Love one another.’

“And, of course, Barney is so funny.”

The Wit & Wisdom of Bernard P. Fife Along with his iconic television star turns as Barney Fife on "The Andy Griffith Show" and Ralph Furley on "Three's Company," Don Knotts' film career spanned 40 years. Some of his most notable motion pictures are "No Time for Sergeants," "The Incredible Mr. Limpet," "The Ghost and Mr. Chicken," "The Shakiest Gun in the West," "The Apple Dumpling Gang," and "Pleasantville."

His five-time-Emmy Award-winning alter-ego, Deputy Bernard P. Fife, had his share of memorable quotes while he, with a good heart and one bullet in his pocket, bumblingly served the citizens of Mayberry. Among them:

• "A man spends money gettin' his suit spotted and pressed, takes two hours polishing his hat, and for what? Heartaches!"

• "I stand before you a humble man all choked up with humbleness and humility."

• “I ain’t got time to stand around here and discuss trivial trivialities.”

• "Sure, you can end up hungover and in jail. But sometimes it's worth it."

• "Yeah, well, today's 8-year-olds are tomorrow's teenagers. I say this calls for action and now. Nip it in the bud. First sign of youngsters goin' wrong, you got to nip it in the bud. ... Nip it. You go read any book you want on the subject of child discipline and you'll find that every one of them is in favor of bud-nippin'."

Knotts died from complications from pneumonia related to lung cancer on Feb. 24, 2006. He was 81. He is buried at Pierce Brothers Westwood Village Memorial Park and Mortuary in Los Angeles. A graveside plaque includes the inscription: "He saw the poignancy in people’s pride and pain and turned it into something hilarious and endearing.”

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